poppypicklesticks

bergauk asked:

We DO understand. But as a guy it's really fucking frustrating to here "yeah but women have this as an issue" whenever a guy tries to relate to them in even the slightest way. Feminism is not about one-upping every guy who says something about oppression of men. It is about everyone having equal rights. Those who forget this fact are what is wrong with feminism.

ihomicide answered:

actually you dont, its frustrating when men act like they’re trying to “relate” but are really just trying to take the focus off of our problems (i bet its frustrating to HEAR about, haha imagine how frustrating it is to have those issues)

it just sounds like “well men have it hard too :(“ 

like if you’re talking about male rape survivors and the injustices they face (like not being taken seriously cause “men cant be raped”) and someone comes along and says “well female rape survivors have it WAY worst” like i can see how thats a problem, BUT i have never seen a woman try to derail a discussion about men’s issues under patriarchy 
however i have seen many men come out of the woodworks to make it about themselves

feminism is about women, it is about dismantling the patriarchy (which is the thing hurting men, remember, its not us) it is so WE can be equals to men, its not so men can be equal to women (ykno cause we’re hardly seen as human beings)

if i wanna make a post about how annoying it is to talk about feminism with dudes, then let me, dont make a peep, dont try to steer the conversation towards men

thank 8^)

poppypicklesticks:

"actually you dont“’

:its frustrating when men act like they’re trying to “relate” but are really just trying to take the focus off of our problems”

It must be very frustrating for a spoilt brat such as yourself to hear that you are not the only one with problems, and that as much as you try to gender things like rape, domestic violence, sexual harassment and assault into problems only women have, men actually experience as well, and part of the reason these problems are often ignored to the point that in many parts of the world, rape is defined by forced penetration of a woman by a man (meaning women who are raped by other women are also legally ignored, not just men who are raped by women) 

"(i bet its frustrating to HEAR about, haha imagine how frustrating it is to have those issues)"

I bet it’s frustrating to be told “you’re not the only one with issues”.  Hahaha imagine how frustrating it is to have those issues and to be told you don’t have those issues by people who have no personal experience with it besides victimhood circlejerking on tumblr.  ”What happened to this woman also happened to me because I have a vagina!  I understand it better then a man who has been raped because vagina hive mind!” 

"it just sounds like “well men have it hard too :(“

I’m pretty sure a homeless teenage boy who was thrown out of his home for being gay and was molested by his uncle as a child and is now HIV positive due to having to turn tricks to survive has had it harder then your prissyarse ever has, Princess.  You think because you have a vagina you are automatically a victim?  Wow, nobody removes agency from women quite like feminists do. 

"like if you’re talking about male rape survivors and the injustices they face (like not being taken seriously cause “men cant be raped”) and someone comes along and says “well female rape survivors have it WAY worst” like i can see how thats a problem, BUT i have never seen a woman try to derail a discussion about men’s issues under patriarchy "

Really? You wanna play that card?  Let me enlighten you.

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(for reference this is the feminist who claims she got PTSD off twitter and claims she will get any military member who objects to this fired, and is boasting of having reported one such person to his commanding officer)

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And if you would like, I can get you some screncaps of the feminist who told me “As a straight cis female, gay men getting catfished on Grindr by straight women doesn’t bother me anywhere near as much as it would if straight men were catfishing lesbians because gay men have so much privilege in society and straight women are so oppressed” and when on with a long rant about how straight women catfishing gay men for their sexual amusement and inability to respect the fact that gay men are not interested in women because patriarchy women are so oppressed for their sexuality because slut shaming and patriarchy and apparently all the times gay men have been spat at been screamed at or even murdered for simply holding hands in public don’t real only lady feels.  

Also if you google Janet Hardy you will find her speech where she claims it’s fine for women such as herself to appropriate and reclaim a slur against gay men, because calling a woman a “girl” is apparently as offensive as calling a gay man a faggot, and since nobody gets upset about her using the word girl to describe herself, then it’s okay for her to call herself a faggot because her feels as a lady > gay men’s reals.  

You have never seen women trying to derail men’s issues under the guise of the Patriarchy? 


"however i have seen many men come out of the woodworks to make it about themselves"

"Homophobia is the fear that gay men will treat you the way you treat women".   I can give you plenty more examples of women trying to make issues concerning gay men all about straight women instead. 

"feminism is about women, it is about dismantling the patriarchy (which is the thing hurting men, remember, its not us)"

So the Duluth Method is just the patriarchy?  The feminists who sent death threats and harassment to Erin Pizzey and her family and killed her dog because her setting up shelters for men angered and upset them so much, as well as her suggestion that domestic violence happened to both men and women?  Just patriarchy?

How about comments like this?

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"it is so WE can be equals to men, its not so men can be equal to women (ykno cause we’re hardly seen as human beings)"

All women are hardly seen as human beings?  Please stop playing the world’s smallest violin: no one is impressed by you projecting your victim complex onto over half the population of Planet Earth. 

"if i wanna make a post about how annoying it is to talk about feminism with dudes, then let me, dont make a peep, dont try to steer the conversation towards men"

Translation: “Wah wah wah I wanna wallow in self pity, don’t you dare try to trash my pity party by pointing out I’m not the only one with problems, don’t you dare, I have it so hard because I can’t take other peoples problems and make them all about myself I need feminism wah wah the patriarchy needs to put me on a pedestal and indulge me why can’t you men indulge me like I’m a precocious toddler” 

"thank 8^)"

Acting like a prissy little brat is why nobody takes feminism seriously anymore.  You ended a note as infantile as the one you begun with. 

undercover-witch

Anonymous asked:

Justify why it's okay that you read gon or killua doujins?

undercover-witch answered:

It’s fiction and it turns me on.

Would you mind giving a link or publication to said essays (maybe those you favor)?

On that note: I think it’s important that we are honest with ourselves when it comes to being turned on - in general and in works of fiction. There is to much pseudo morality about “what the right things to like” are. That won’t do anyone any good.

avenidarevolution

maxkirin:

A kind follower reminded me of that '7 Cardinal Rules of Life' post going around, and they asked me if I would ever do my take on them (that being, a writerly take). Well, seeing as how I’ve been running a Writer Positivity series for over 100 posts, I thought it would be a fun chance to collect some of my favorite advice!

PS: The above are not meant to be taken as ‘literal’ rules for writing, but rather advice for leading the lifestyle of a writer~ ♥︎

Looking for more writerly content? Make sure to follow maxkirin.tumblr.com for your daily dose of writer positivity, advice, and prompts!

undercover-witch

Body Switch

undercover-witch:

ゴンが絶対言ってくれなそうな事をキルアに言わせてみた

One of my personal favorites, full title is “Killua said what Gon definitely wouldn’t”.

Gon and Killua switch bodies, Illumi and Hisoka take them for a day out. Illumi actually has fun with Killua (Gon), while Gon (Killua) is set to give Hisoka a taste of his own poison. The HisoGon part gets a little naughty, but it’s nothing too explicit.

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Kuroko no Basuke lines up with other works which disappointed me in the end.

I start Naruto and it becomes this Naruto teams up with Sasuke thingy, everyone else is small fries by now, and they probably save the day. (Also, no one from the main-main characters actually dies.)

I catch up to the entirety of Gantz on a weekend and 3 weeks later the manga is butchered into an ending that doesn’t make sense.

Fairy Tail disappointed me so badly at some point, I stopped buying the volumes.

I started reading Bleach, then Sternritter Arc happens and everything goes horseshit. And it makes me so angry, since I had such high hopes for the final arc. But Kubo just jerks off to his own inability and still hasn’t learned how the German language works.

And then KnB. We could have had it all.